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Who knows what this guy is dealing with?
TODAY AN ONCOMING CAR cut in front of me, forcing me to stop while he made a left turn. I was annoyed that my right-of-way had been trespassed on, that someone would place his interests ahead of mine. But as the car turned in front of me I looked at the driver's face, my heart actually went out to him. I thought, "Who knows what this guy is dealing with? Maybe he's had a rough day. Maybe he's had a rough life." I paused and let him make his turn.
I believe this was a moment of forgiveness. I just released the whole thing to God's wisdom and went on my way.
Thinking about it later, I realized that a patient, forgiving attitude is an asset in any situation. It increases harmony and helps keep anger from escalating into unproductive reaction.
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September 3, 2001 issue
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Who knows what this guy is dealing with?
Dave Hohle
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YOUR LETTERS
with contributions from Patricia Herlinger, David Chester Smith, Linda Jarvis Snorek, John Holmstrom
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items of interest
with contributions from Jon Jeter, Robert D. Enright, Richard P. Fitzgibbons, Marc Gunther, Amy E. Dean
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'Why should I forgive you?'
By Robert Enright
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I NEEDED TO HEAL MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY DAD
Ryder Stevens
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The power of forgiveness
By Elise L. Moore
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YOU CAN GO HOME AGAIN
David G. Shields
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Words of love that grabbed world attention
By Gay Bryant
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I had wanted to forgive her all along
By Jenny Sawyer
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Getting off the roller coaster
By Richard Bergenheim
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When I needed help... God was there for me
By Jane Toler
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Grateful hearts
By Judy V. Little
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Inspiration—a breath of fresh air
Frances Hunt
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Danger and violence defused
Valdir Iamnhuqui with contributions from Margareth Aparecida Vancetto
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Broken bones healed through prayer
Beverly Maw
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Notices
with contributions from The Christian Science Board of Directors
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Balanced lives in the emerging economy
Russ Gerber