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To drink, or not to drink
IT CAME AS a surprise. Actually, more of a jolt. At an out-of-town convention, one of my company's officers and I were chatting with a client. The other two held alcoholic beverages. I was enjoying my usual soft drink. At one point my associate referred to this difference by saying, "Dick's a deserving guy, but he'll never make it in this business. He doesn't drink."
Even though he said it jokingly, I was still jolted. That night in my hotel room I took stock. Would success elude me because I didn't drink?
Drinking liquor was contrary to everything I believed was truly good for me. I wanted to advance steadily in my understanding of Spirit, God, and of my own spirituality. Consuming liquor would take me in the opposite direction. It represented a false and damaging appetite. The abuse of alcohol robs people of their freedom to think and act intelligently. I had absolutely no interest in it.
Instead of being detrimental, the choice to forego alcohol was always a blessing.
I knew I couldn't be harmed for taking a stand I knew to be right for me. Further, I felt my stand was more beneficial to my employer and my clients than clouding my thought with mind numbing drink would be. I had to trust that this would be apparent to everyone concerned.
Science and Health by Mary Baker Eddy states, "The objects we pursue and the spirit we manifest reveal our standpoint, and show what we are winning" (p. 239). I was working from the standpoint of man's innate purity as God's child—a stance that would make me more effective in servicing our clients.
This conviction brightened my thought and reassured me I was treading the right path. The subject never came up again, except occasionally when a customer I was entertaining might say, "If you don't drink, don't start. You're better off without it." I stayed with the company for more than thirty years. I was regularly promoted, and became good friends with the colleague quoted earlier. Instead of being detrimental, the choice to forego alcohol was always a blessing.
November 29, 1999 issue
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To Our Readers
Russ Gerber
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YOUR LETTERS
with contributions from Caryl Jean Fishkin, Margaret C. Lauterbach
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Waking up to God
Mark Yaconelli
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"Most stolen book in print"
Heidi B. Perlman
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"THE FINAL FRONTIER"
Robert John Russell
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GOD ON THE INTERNET
Scott Simon
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The connection between purity and health
JAN KASSAHN KEELER
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Years of guilt, gone in a moment
BY MELISSA NEILL
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Prioritizing
BY RUSSELL LUERSSEN
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Peace restored between a mother and her son
BY ELLEN MOORE THOMPSON
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To drink, or not to drink
BY RICHARD S. RAFFLES
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It's a Law! (or is it?)
BY PHYLLIS A KLANG
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Looking for the right gift
BY MICHELLE BOCCANFUSO
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Dear Diary
PAMELA SPERRY THORNDIKE
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God's love
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Healing following a snowboarding accident
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Severe skin condition healed through prayer
JANET L. BENSON
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Child is well again after reading from Science and Health
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Prayer heals injured hiker
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Recurring nosebleeds healed
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Technology—it's not all-powerful, but it can be good
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Exploded doctrines
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