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Listening and bridge-building
“Communicating—are we crossing bridges or building walls?” timescolonist.com/spirituality. November 12, 2011.
Isaac Newton once stated: “We build too many walls and not enough bridges.” Perhaps the question every community needs to ask is, “Does our community need more walls or more bridges?”
Recently, a friend and colleague, Eric Hellman, and I put on a workshop about how to communicate more effectively—especially on matters of spirit and faith, because these issues touch the central core of our being in so many ways, and often result in wall-building where bridges of understanding would be better.
The first step in communicating, Eric explained, is to “know thyself”—that is, our own values, experience, wisdom, and beliefs. You could think of that as the supporting pillar on your side of the bridge. However, if we stand only on ‘our side,’ with our opinions firmly rooted in the cement of being ‘right,’ how can we truly relate to someone on the ‘other side,’ who sees life from a very different perspective? And who is just as firmly rooted? To relate to them, we must be willing to see things from their side of the bridge as well.
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January 9, 2012 issue
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Letters
Susan S. Collins, Tempie Stahlin, Jim Keel
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A pledge for healing answers
Jenny Nelles, Staff Editor
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Listening and bridge-building
Anna Bowness-Park
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A spiritual defense against bullying
Lois Carlson
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When your best friends bully you
Name withheld
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How a seagull taught me to 'see more'
By Caroline Martin
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'You look just like your...'
Nancy Robison
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Snowed in – and safe
By Pamela Joy Concar
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Keep the change
By Cyrus Njagi Muriithi
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Resolving conflict – beyond lawyers
Viktor Theiss
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My summer travels to Turkey
By Isabel Jamerson
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The foundation of Church
By Cathryn Anderson
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A healing light in my life
Grace Njuakom
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Take a stand with moral courage
Martha Sarvis
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Life is living you
By Karen Bailey
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Cut finger quickly healed
Mary McCullagh Reu
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Healed of menstrual discomfort
Poonam Likhi
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Suicidal thoughts overcome through prayer
Jeffrey Parikesit
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Safety from threats large and small
The Editors