Article May 4, 1998 Issue

Looking for new ways to show support for your mother—or father? Help them conquer fear.

Fearless Mother's Day

By Elise L. Moore

What a wonderful commandment: "Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee" (Ex. 20:12).

Mother's Day is a good time to remember that adults, too, have opportunities to honor their parents. One way is to express gratitude. Gratitude for their sincere efforts. Gratitude for their guidance and encouragement. Gratitude for their patience and perseverance. Opening our heart to gratitude blesses us as well as our parents, and can start us down the path of healing any hurtful memories.

Another way is to encourage our mothers and fathers as they might have encouraged us. When we were little, perhaps we were afraid of the dark and our mother or father helped us overcome that fear. Sometimes in later years mothers and fathers need the same kind of loving support. Instead of being afraid for them or justifying their fears, we can help them challenge fear and regain their independence and dignity.

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