Article July 1, 1985 Issue

Decisions, decisions

RALYNE NAWMAN ROBB

I had moved three thousand miles away from friends and family to gain a better sense of independence and individuality. And I was looking for Mr. Right, the perfect husband!

But after a few months in the new location I became almost obsessed with making a decision about whether to stay. Humanly, there were pluses and minuses on both sides. In the few months there I had already gained a surprising and wonderful sense of independence along with a deepening dependence on God. I knew I could survive "on my own." I was establishing my individuality in my thought and life style. Then, why the nagging desire to return home?

We all have decisions to make. Some are relatively minor— what to wear to work today—and others will affect the rest of our lives. How can we know which is which? How can we make the right choice? Some people list the pros and cons, some flip a coin, some seek the advice of friends and/or family, and others turn to psychics or tea leaves. But many individuals base their decisions on prayer.

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