Article September 7, 1981 Issue

Letting go

NANCY JANE WOMELSDORF

When taking the first steps in Christian Science, one person may read Science and Health by Mrs. Eddy to gain a basis of understanding; another may begin by studying the Bible Lesson in the Christian Science Quarterly. Still another may start by simply attending the services of a branch Church of Christ, Scientist. Each one reaches out for a higher understanding of God in an individual way, propelled by his own needs. Therefore, it is of utmost importance that we respect the distinctive avenue that another takes under God's guidance.

It seems reasonable to say that one's Mind-directed spiritual approach and development represent the progressive appearing of his true identity, his unique individuality as the reflection of God, Mind. To be influenced by another's approach, to do what others advise is the "best way," could be to have other gods instead of turning to the one perfect Mind alone.

Just as you and I must find our own distinct path, so we must understand and trust God's willingness to govern all of mankind. Perhaps one of the greatest challenges in doing this can be found in our homes, with our own children. How clearly we are able to see their need, and how much self-discipline it takes, sometimes, to obey the divine command, "Be still, and know that I am God"^{Ps. 46:10.}—to be willing to let their true identity unfold from within, under Mind's control! The highest expression of love we can offer another is to let go—knowing that his mode of growth stems from and reveals his true, spiritual individuality. And precisely because such growth does represent God's unfolding of one's very identity it is inevitable. Mrs. Eddy writes: "There is but one creator and one creation. This creation consists of the unfolding of spiritual ideas and their identities, which are embraced in the infinite Mind and forever reflected."^{Science and Health, pp. 502-503.} Nothing can prevent the natural unfolding of God's ideas in the realm of the real, but on the human scene this unfolding can seem at times to be temporarily blocked by outside pressures and human will.