WELCOME September 20, 1999 Issue

To Our Readers

Russ Gerber

How much influence do parents have in helping to determine their children's behavior? That's a question that the media and polling organizations have been asking lately in the aftermath of the tragedy earlier this year at Columbine High School in Littleton, Colorado. Concern that parental influence ends at the front door when their child goes off to school has many mothers and fathers looking for answers—and help.

One controversial theory being put forth is that a child's peers, together with his or her own genes, are a greater determinant of behavior than the nurturing received from parents. Critics of such a theory argue that this is not only silly but dangerous: "If parents are told that children are immune to their efforts to nurture, stimulate, guide, model and teach ... why should they bother trying?"^{Melissa Healy, "Debate Rises on Parents' Influence Over Children," Los Angeles Times (July 4, 1999), p. A3 .}

Giulia Plum has been looking into this issue for the Sentinel. In her article she tells how one couple found prayer and spiritual understanding to be successful in eliminating behavioral troubles for their son. Read about the method they used and the good results that followed in this week's Cover Story. We think you'll find the information inspiring and practical, not only for parents but for the whole family.

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