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My husband's family was of a different religion than mine...
My husband's family was of a different religion than mine, but this caused no friction. He was loving and considerate, and went faithfully to church with the children and me. When my mother-in-law became sick and needed hospitalization I asked her if she would like to know how Christian Science could help her. She smiled but didn't ask for help.
Because my father-in-law was retired, my husband became concerned about the mounting hospital bill and felt he should pay it. I agreed, although this meant we had to borrow the money on our house—and to put our mortgage back to the beginning balance. The time came when a doctor reported Mother had only a short time to live, and suggested we put her in a nursing home or care for her at home. My father-in-law gathered his six children together to tell them what the doctor had said, and to ask them what they wished to do. No one wanted to put her in a nursing home, but no one offered to take her into their own home—until my husband said he would like to do it.
I remember calling a Christian Science practitioner and talking to her about this situation, for I really didn't know whether I could do this. I don't remember anything specific about the conversation, but I do remember how deeply I realized I couldn't think any resentful thoughts as to why others hadn't offered to help; I needed to stick to what we felt was right, and do it with love. I'll have to say at this point I hadn't thought about healing—I just wanted the strength to care for my mother-in-law.
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March 7, 1994 issue
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Get "tough"
Judith Hardy Olson
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When we're faced with malice
Marian Cates
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We do have a "fixed" income
Barbara-Jean Stinson
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A new love—a true love
Rebecca Van Meter
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Leavening world thought with prayer
Iris Funnell
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Two Thousand Years
Billy Joel
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Help for the world's hates
William E. Moody
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Mary and Martha
Doris Ulich
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You're not alone
Russ Gerber
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My love for Christian Science includes gratitude for the...
Denis R. Charbeneau
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My husband's family was of a different religion than mine...
Lucille Jewel Templeton
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For about six months I was aware that I could not hear in...
Sylvia A. Hill