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Working parents: how to still the storm of a busy life
Anchor your life in the kingdom of heaven.
Life with children and a career can be quite a balancing act. Mine has certainly been no different. During one period in particular, I felt as though I had more balls in the air than anyone could reasonably keep track of. I was working more than full time running my own business, which required a fair amount of travel, and I had married a man with three children, who all lived with us. I was also involved in church activities and in timeconsuming volunteer work.
Frequently, I had heard that in order to get organized one must prioritize, but that in itself seemed daunting. Here I was, helping to raise someone else's children, who deserved my care and attention, and attempting to grow a business which was a great love of mine. I felt pulled in every direction possible—by my husband, his children, our extended families, demanding clients, and the organizations for which I volunteered. I always knew that if I chose to have children, they would take priority in my life, but these were not my children. Was I to give them the same consideration? And what would be the cost of that decision on my career?
I recall thinking often about Christ Jesus' promise that "the kingdom of God is within you" (Luke 17:21), but it seemed that kingdom surely eluded me at times. Having embarked on what felt like very stormy seas, I often wondered what to do. Interestingly, I was often literally on the high seas as well, since I spent a fair amount of time on ships because of my work. Ultimately, what I learned from my time on board and at home is that varying responsibilities which seem to be at odds with each other can be a laboratory for proving that, as the Bible says, "all things work together for good to them that love God, to themwho are the called according to his purpose" (Rom 8:28).
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August 23, 1999 issue
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To Our Readers
Russ Gerber
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YOUR LETTERS
with contributions from Kenneth Malone, John F. Anderson
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items of interest
with contributions from Michelle Akers
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Working parents: how to still the storm of a busy life
By Colleen Douglass
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THE TRUST ACCOUNT
David Thielk
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BALANCING HOME AND WORK
Susan B. Carr
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Who'll stop the rain?
By Cheryl F. M. Petersen
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Help always at hand
By Sharon Slaton Howell
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GOD AS FORTRESS
Lois Rae Carlson
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I no longer wonder, What is truth?
By Edna V. Locke
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Your best defense
By Elise L. Moore
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HOME ALONE-AND SAFE
Jewel Becker Simmons
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Sowing and reaping: a good lesson for every life problem
By Teresa K. Doan and Alisa Nixon
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Dear Sentinel,
John Raffles, Catherine Raffles
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Prayer cures two severe cases of mastoiditis
Virginia Roddy
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Employment found; burned hand healed
Ellen J. Wolf
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Illness quickly healed
Pamela J. Cummings with contributions from Stephen Cummings
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Find the right job for you
By R. David Robert
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Do working parents have to feel pulled in two directions?
Mary Metzner Trammell