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SOMETHING NEEDED TO CHANGE
YOU DON'T HAVE to be a parent to discover that outlining an answer for someone else's problem—even your own child's—isn't always helpful. As a parent, it's easy to expect your child to respond to situations in their daily lives just as you would. But as a mom of a preteen daughter, I've found that a prayerful approach to raising her works better than trying to force her to live up to my own expectations, and I've had to let go of quite a few of the parenting theories I had before my daughter was born.
Even though I'd pictured myself as a consistently composed mother with unending patience, there have definitely been moments when I've become frazzled. Such as when Lucia developed a full-blown phobia of animals.
As a baby, she was clearly uncomfortable when a dog barked or made sudden moves. Years later, when she was about six years old, she'd practically dash into oncoming Manhattan traffic to avoid passing a leashed Chihuahua on the sidewalk. I couldn't pinpoint a specific incident that had scared her, and this intense fear seemed so irrational to me that my patience was wearing thin.
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Amy Richmond lives with her daughter, Lucia, in New York City.
November 5, 2007 issue
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LETTERS
with contributions from BENOIT FAUCHON, BARB GUNESCH, BRIGITTE BREITENBUCHER, LYN H. DAVIS, CAROL B. AKIN
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Risky business?
KIM SHIPPEY, SENIOR WRITER
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ITEMS OF INTEREST
with contributions from Paige Lauren Deiner
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AT RISK—OR UNDER GOD'S WING?
BY JEREMY CARPER
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INTUITIVE STEPS
BY AIMEE HERMANSON
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Rebuilding New Orleans
BY JOY MEE
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GOD IS NON-STOP
BY ANN REIGHART
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The rebuke that heals
BY LYNN JACKSON
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No talents wasted
BY ZELIA JOHNSEN
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AFTERGLOW
WIL MEACHAM
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A CENTRAL FOCUS
GINNY NILSEN
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SOMETHING NEEDED TO CHANGE
AMY RICHMOND
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RACIAL CONCEPTS AND THE JENA SIX
KWADJO BOAITEY
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BACK PAIN AND HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE HEALED THROUGH PRAYER
RICHARD D. SOULE
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REFUSAL TO INDULGE IN ANGER BRINGS SWIFT HEALING
DIANE R. MALONEY with contributions from JAMES R. MALONEY
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FACIAL GROWTH HEALED
MARYSUE HARRIS
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THAT RISKY FIRST COMMANDMENT
The Editors