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Overcoming Destructive Criticism
Perhaps one can seem justified in judging what is obviously an error. While constructive criticism is often helpful, even essential, and while evil in every form must be exposed and denounced, are we ever justified in thinking destructively? Most who do no doubt think they are justified. But Mrs. Eddy tells us, "Hate no one; for hatred is a plague-spot that spreads its virus and kills at last." Miscellaneous Writings, p.12;
Destructive criticism is one of the most subtle sins. People who are otherwise very fine can sometimes be fooled into allowing themselves to indulge in it. But if allowed to go unchecked, it can spoil one's disposition and experience.
When condemning others we're disobeying Jesus' command to love our neighbor. Instead of seeing God's creation—made in His image, spiritual and perfect—we're seeing the mortal counterfeit of that creation and are accepting the counterfeit as the reality. So it is our seeing that needs correcting. And in order to correct it, our thought needs to be spiritualized, to be lifted above a merely physical, finite concept of man.
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February 14, 1976 issue
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The Spiritual Meaning of Home
THOMAS ALAN WALDMAN
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Putting Away "childish things"
ARLINE WALKER EVANS
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Interview on Marriage
HELEN M. LEADBEATER
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Departing from Biological Concepts
KATHRYN PAULSON GROUNDS
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Overcoming Destructive Criticism
FRANCES L. GREIG
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THE FIRST COMMANDMENT
Gloria Clements
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The True Psychology of Childraising
NANCY H. MINTER
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PREPARATION FOR THE TAPESTRY
Cathryn Toohey Adams
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Let's Be Friends!
JENNIFER STANFORD (written at age 11)
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Where Do You Live?
Geoffrey J. Barratt
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The "In-law" Relationship
Naomi Price
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As it is now well over ten years since I have had a testimony...
Norma Lou Tipler with contributions from J. Grant Tipler
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All my life I have been a cat lover
Kirsten Rogers with contributions from Donna J. Rogers
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In proportion to our effort to know and to do God's will in all...
Mary Elizabeth Leever
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In the Christian Science Hymnal we read (No.182):...
Ruth B. Hobe
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As my parents were students of Christian Science, I was enrolled...
Ann Felt Milford