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The quiet quality that uplifts
Adapted from an article published in The Christian Science Monitor, March 14, 2016.
Scientists have made a powerful discovery that appears able to improve everyone’s life. Reports indicate it works on individuals, families, communities, economies, and nations. Interestingly, it appears that too little of this substance may explain the coarsening of language and the hardening of hearts so evident in politics and the media. Lack of it also might be responsible for everything from substance abuse to the anxiety many people say they feel despite the unprecedented security, better health, and affluence the world is experiencing.
And here’s the kicker: It’s free, it’s abundant, and you can’t overdose on it.
The substance is philia, which goes by its generic name brotherly love. In his book The Four Loves, C. S. Lewis described the other brands of love as affection, passionate love, and spiritual love. Philia is rarer than those. It is responsible for companionability, friendship, and sociability. Lewis described philia as both unnecessary and essential: “It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things which give value to survival.”
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May 23, 2016 issue
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Letters
Diane Williamson, Cathy Edge
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Never give in to chaos
Elizabeth Crecelius Schwartz
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Commencement—looking forward with spiritual vision
Brian Webster
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In defense of the whole human family
Joseph Eller
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Christian Science is the most effective healer
Sue Holzberlein
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Should I strike back?
Jenny Sinatra
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No more altitude sickness
Marsha Delano
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Our son’s lack of focus was healed
Julie Rein
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Puppy healed
Heather Bauer
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'Holy, Holy, Holy, Lord God Almighty...'
Photograph by Steve Ryf
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The quiet quality that uplifts
John Yemma
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The power behind brotherly love
Liz Butterfield Wallingford
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The deep honesty that supports Christ-healing
Curt Wahlberg