You are having to start something new, and you are thinking about the future. A spiritual sense of purpose can help you look ahead without being afraid.
Would you be surprised to find that spirituality is as much your native habitat as the ocean is for whales? And that Christ Jesus' call to follow him was meant for you?
Arguments — across a conference table or the kitchen table — cry out for solutions. Maybe the answer isn't who is right but what God is and what God gives us as His children.