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Black and white? Or brothers?
Originally appeared online in the teen series: Trending - February 12, 2018
It was my first week in college in the United States, and I didn’t understand what was going on with my roommate. At first I’d been friendly, but he wasn’t very responsive. So I backed off—thinking he needed his space. However, I soon noticed that, while he didn’t seem to want to talk to me, outside of our room he was friendly with others.
I had never been in a situation like this before—of being around someone, having to live with someone, who was pretending I didn’t exist. The atmosphere in our room was tense, and in our limited interactions he was always unfriendly and impolite.
One day, a guy across the hall told me he knew what was going on. My roommate had a reputation for being racist. The problem wasn’t me but the color of my skin.
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May 14, 2018 issue
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From the readers
Jean Hodinh, Carole Bell
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Worthy—and free from the weight of the past
Terry Ann Homan
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The power of ‘let’
Deborah Huebsch
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Truth is always the solution
Yvonne Joy Prinsloo
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‘I wanted to serve God’
Benjamim Pilipili Vonga
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Self-doubt: Exit stage right
Juliet Beck
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Black and white? Or brothers?
Name Withheld
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Instant healing of kitchen burn
Jan Abrams
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No longer lactose intolerant
Charlene Anne Miller
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Arm restored to full mobility
Cindy Martin
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‘Grateful for all the good’
Emmalee Dent
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'O God, our Father-Mother, Life ...'
Photograph by Ann Blamey
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Growing beyond ‘us and them’
Tony Lobl